We are not like them

HERE'S HOW we HELP the children

We Are Not Like Them Program

Monday - Friday| Ages 16–24

Transition age youth (16-24) in Connecticut experience significant gaps in behavioral health access, workforce engagement, and housing stability. Many youth transitioning from DCF, juvenile justice, or behavioral health system lack coordinated support. As a result, they experience crisis cycling, recidivism, unemployment, and homelessness. WE ARE Not Like Them addresses this service gap through a hour, trauma-informed stabilization and development model serving disconnected youth in Central Connecticut.

Who This Program Is For:

  • Highschool students

  • Young adults navigating post-graduation decisions

  • Youth preparing for college, careers, or life transitions

  • Students seeking structure, mentorship, and direction

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Help your child build the skills they need for whatever comes next.

We Are Not Like Them Youth Program

The We Are Not Like Them Program is designed to support students through moments of change by focusing on skills that apply to any next step in life.

Self-Awareness & Identity

Participants explore who they are, what they value, and how their strengths connect to future opportunities. This foundation helps them make intentional, informed decisions about their path forward.

Life & Decision-Making Skills

From time management and goal setting to financial basics and personal responsibility, students learn skills that promote independence and reduce stress during major transitions.

Career & Pathway Exploration

Youth are introduced to multiple post-secondary options—including college, trades, entrepreneurship, military service, and workforce opportunities—so they understand that success comes in many forms.

Emotional Resilience & Mental Well-Being

Change can be overwhelming. We help participants develop coping strategies, confidence, and emotional tools that support mental health during periods of uncertainty and growth.

Download our NEW book!

Learn to Earn! The Job Getting Guidebook

Learn to Earn! The Job-Getting Guidebook is a practical, easy-to-follow resource designed to help young adults confidently navigate the path to employment. Built as part of Hoops 4 Life’s 4 What’s Next framework, this guide walks readers through the essential skills needed to move from “looking for a job” to “landing the job.” From understanding personal strengths and career interests to preparing resumes, acing interviews, and developing workplace habits, this ebook breaks the process down into clear, manageable steps.

Whether a reader is entering the workforce for the first time, transitioning from school, or looking for a fresh start, Learn to Earn! provides real-world tips, reflection exercises, and encouragement to build confidence, independence, and long-term success. It’s more than a job guide—it’s a roadmap to purpose, stability, and the next chapter of life.

Parent Information

Eat Like a pro

Deneen Fryer

Founder

Deneen Fryer is the Founder and Executive Director of Hoops 4 Life Inc. For more than 16 years, Hoops 4 Life Inc. has been dedicated to serving families throughout Connecticut.

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