Preparing

We are not like them

Equips youth and young adults with transferable, real-world skills that help bridge the gap between where they are now and where they’re going.

Leveling the Playing Field —

On and Off the Court

Empowering underserved youth in Waterbury, CT through basketball, STEAM, Arts, Mentorship, and Life-Transition Readiness.

We Are Not Like Them

Youth Program

The We Are Not Like Them Program is designed to support students through moments of change by focusing on skills that apply to any next step in life.

Self-Awareness & Identity

Participants explore who they are, what they value, and how their strengths connect to future opportunities. This foundation helps them make intentional, informed decisions about their path forward.

Life & Decision-Making Skills

From time management and goal setting to financial basics and personal responsibility, students learn skills that promote independence and reduce stress during major transitions.

Career & Pathway Exploration

Youth are introduced to multiple post-secondary options—including college, trades, entrepreneurship, military service, and workforce opportunities—so they understand that success comes in many forms.

Emotional Resilience & Mental Well-Being

Change can be overwhelming. We help participants develop coping strategies, confidence, and emotional tools that support mental health during periods of uncertainty and growth.

Download our NEW book!

Learn to Earn!

The Job Getting Guidebook

Learn to Earn! The Job-Getting Guidebook is a practical, easy-to-follow resource designed to help young adults confidently navigate the path to employment. Built as part of Hoops 4 Life’s 4 What’s Next framework, this guide walks readers through the essential skills needed to move from “looking for a job” to “landing the job.” From understanding personal strengths and career interests to preparing resumes, acing interviews, and developing workplace habits, this ebook breaks the process down into clear, manageable steps.

Whether a reader is entering the workforce for the first time, transitioning from school, or looking for a fresh start, Learn to Earn! provides real-world tips, reflection exercises, and encouragement to build confidence, independence, and long-term success. It’s more than a job guide—it’s a roadmap to purpose, stability, and the next chapter of life.

DESIGN THE LIFE

they TRULY DESERVE

At Hoops 4 Life, we believe every young person deserves the chance to dream big and design a future filled with purpose. Our programs are built to nurture the whole child—mind, body, and spirit. From the basketball court to the classroom, from creative arts to life-readiness skills, we provide the tools, mentorship, and community support that help youth rise above challenges and step confidently into their future.

Through structured training, academic enrichment, and positive role models, students don’t just learn how to play the game—they learn how to lead, how to solve problems, and how to chase their goals with discipline and determination. Hoops 4 Life is more than a program; it’s a pathway to the life every child truly deserves.

Download our NEW E-book!

Beyond the Court:

A Parent’s Guide to Youth Basketball Success

A practical resource designed to help families support their child’s growth both on and off the court. This guide goes beyond drills and game strategy, offering parents tips on balancing academics with athletics, building healthy habits around nutrition and rest, and nurturing character traits like teamwork, discipline, and resilience. Whether your child is just starting out or playing at a competitive level, this e-book equips parents with the tools and encouragement to foster confidence, consistency, and a lifelong love for the game.

Experience

Hoops 4 Life

See our programs, meet our staff, and explore the supportive, engaging environment where children and young adults grow and thrive. Tours are personally hosted by our Founder, Deneen Fryer, who will guide you through our facility, answer your questions, and show you how Hoops 4 Life is making a difference in the community. Whether you’re a parent, potential partner, or supporter, this is your opportunity to experience our mission up close.

HERE'S HOW we

HELP the children

We Are Not Like Them Program

Monday - Friday| Ages 16–24

Transition age youth (16-24) in Connecticut experience significant gaps in behavioral health access, workforce engagement, and housing stability. Many youth transitioning from DCF, juvenile justice, or behavioral health system lack coordinated support. As a result, they experience crisis cycling, recidivism, unemployment, and homelessness. WE ARE Not Like Them addresses this service gap through a hour, trauma-informed stabilization and development model serving disconnected youth in Central Connecticut.

Target population Youth 16-24 who are disconnected from school and employment, experiencing mental health or substance use challenges, justice involvement, and/ or housing instability. Priority is given to youth transitioning from DCF, DMHA, juvenile justice, or special education services.

Who This Program Is For:

Highschool students
Young adults navigating post-graduation decisions
Youth preparing for college, careers, or life transitions
Students seeking structure, mentorship, and direction

Take the Next Step:

Help your child build the skills they need for whatever comes next.

Support

Our Mission

Hoops 4 Life is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit serving youth in Waterbury and Greater Naugatuck Valley. We lean on community partners, sponsors, and grants to keep our programs affordable and accessible—from $25 to $70. Your support ensures ongoing access to athletic, educational, and mentoring opportunities that change lives.

HERE'S HOW we

HELP the children

Sports & Basketball Enrichment

Youth Summer Basketball League (Grades 4–12, June 24–July 19, 2025; $70) — Expert coaching, structured gameplay, and confidence-building in a supportive environment.
AAU Teams, Training & Leagues — Elite-level competitive teams, focused development, and educational support starting at age 8.

STEM & Creative Arts

STEAM Classes — A six-week program (Saturdays, 12pm–1pm; ages 8–14; $25) nurturing curiosity across Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts & Math
Graphic Design Explorers — $35; creative visuals and digital art skills
Theater Arts Program — $35; dramatic expression and performance-based learning
Gaming Tournaments — Monthly competitive events ($50) blending strategy, teamwork, and digital literacy
Music Team / DJ Enrichment — Six-week sessions (Mondays 4:30–5:30pm; ages 9–13; $30) exploring music production and DJing

Life Skills & Transition Support

The “4 What’s Next” Program — A 15-day course ($35) arming students with essential soft skills to navigate life transitions—from school to college, career, or military paths

Hoops 4 Life

Hoops 4 Life is a community-centered organization dedicated to empowering youth, young adults, and individuals with developmental disabilities through structured programs that build confidence, character, and lifelong skills. Come vist us today!

Phone: 203 575-4340

Address: 174 Grand Street, Waterbury, CT 06702-1028

Meet the Team of Professionals

The dedicated staff at Hoops 4 Life bring a powerful mix of passion, experience, and heart to every program. From skilled basketball coaches to creative arts mentors and life-skills leaders, our team is committed to guiding young people both on and off the court. Each staff member shares a common mission—helping youth build confidence, discover their gifts, and prepare for bright futures. With mentorship at the core of what we do, the Hoops 4 Life staff serve not only as instructors, but as role models who inspire, challenge, and encourage every student to reach their full potential.